Here’s a topic that I need to share. It seems in this Dominant/Submissive world that folks really rely heavilyon definition. Case in point: I advertise role playing sessions with Mistress Noir where SHE is the dominant and I can be an assistant, a bondage victim (and hopefully someday a true victim lol),  whatever. So, the question is, does that somehow diminish my public effectiveness in being a dominant creature. NO! Wanna know why? CUZ ITS FOR FUN. Um…FUN… Remember that shit?

I do not need external bullshit or labels to define me and legitimize myself.  I’m not livin it baby…I’m enjoying the role. I PLAY myself everyday…that’s not new. In a safe place, with a safe supervisor…yeah, I’m gonna do something different. Let’s see…I get to be passive and everything happens to me, forced to orgasm, oh the horror!  Um…yeah sign me up for that, sounds fun. Just saying…

I’m so used to slipping in and out of different roles all the time, makes life interesting. I’m not trying to ‘hone my skills” for the next 15 years dominating. I’m trying to enjoy my sexuality and push my limits in both directions. I see some Dominas telling us that they have worked diligently learning new techniques BLAH BLAH BLAH. Cool. Yes, you worked in a dungeon for the past 100  years in New York/London/LA/ETC. Um, didn’t I just see that same chick baggin on someone’s couch with nowhere to stay? I digress…

My point is…I really don’t care what you call me. I just wanna play and have some fun.