I thought about just replying to BB on this…but after re-reading it several times…I thought this is a great opportunity for you to read my response/thoughts so I’m posting it:

Email from Bondage Boy:

Do you know how disgusting and sick what we do really is!
I have to tell You that You are a perverted keeper of an
inverted reversed-roles sex-slave.  Movies depict what the
general public believes about anal sex, calls it sodomy and
gives it the most negative connotation.  “Deliverance” and
“Pulp Fiction” are only two of many titles that show men
getting fucked in the ass as being extremely negative and
humiliating.
 
And I dislike it, too, at first.  That initial minute or so is just
very uncomfortable and painful.  The anus was not made
to have probes inserted in there.  And mine strongly rejects
having anything there going inside of me.
 
And yet here I am!  Still wanting more!  Craving and imagining
bigger and bigger dildoes going deeper and deeper inside for
longer and longer periods.  I say I get used to it, but that is
not entirely true.  What it really is…is You, Holly, being not
only forcefully dominant, but erotic and stimulating while
pounding away into me.  Making me enjoy something the
whole world finds repulsive is truly incredible.  Turning what
should be a humiliating turn-off for me into an intensely
pleasurable act of sex is of extreme value!
 
So the only reason I want to playfully resist and ask You to
tell me that I’m Yours and that I am going to be fucked is to
make that period of dislike last awhile.  My mind can be Your
evil ally if You play with it.  Reminding me that You are going
to make it hurt so good, or torture me with pleasure, etc., are
just little word games that enhance what I’m already thinking.
And waiting around for it all helpless and vulnerable just gets
me all the more worked up.
 
So continue having FUN Your way.  Enjoy having me totally
under Your control for as long as You want.  The end does
indeed justify the means.  And You are the most special and
wonderful person to have ever come into my life!  I hope this
goes on for years.  I never get enough and yet I’m totally
spent when You release me.  You are simply FANTASTIC!
 
Your Bondage Boy

My thoughts:

I think one of the things BB hits on here, that I try to explain to others, is that there is a BIG difference between someone roleplaying a dominant…and simply BEING dominant. I’m usually so wrapped up in whats going on that I sometimes forget the “word games” and little things…cuz I’m not acting or focusing on the presentation of my dominance. I’m just doing what I enjoy. I’m about the DOING…and apparently that quality “scares” some potential Fortunes fans. Other folks report that they appreciate that I have little concern for shiny presentation.

I understand when you say that the first few minutes of strap are mentally uncomfortable, because you are a man… I can put myself in your role and I LOVE the pain involved when a big dick first enters my ass but I’m a girl (and NO, this will never be offered to the public, so dont ask).

I wish that we as a society could see how fantastically awesome strap lovers are…and see if for what it is. FUN-GUILTFREE-FUCKIN. I DO see how we portray this activity in mainstream as vile and repulsive. BUT if I could bottle that “every muscle in his body is tensed and giving this orgasm” experience…we’d have a world of strap addicts and frankly…Im not sure I could handle that volume. LMFAO!!!

I would like to get that kind of orgasm on video. THEN they will see. I need a forehead webcam.

No worries Bondage Boy…you’ll be around for awhile, Ive found good uses for you :)