Once again darlin! Happy 2nd annual hug a moron day!! XOXOX
Hi Miss Fortunes – i am wondering about being on the “driver’s” end of Your strapon. Does it create sexual excitement for you? Is the activity intense enough to make You cum?? Just wonderin….
There is a good reason I’ve become addicted to strapon…I’m a pleaser. I know, I know…not the expected answer. I’m supposed to say I get off on “dominating” with strap. I’m supposed to say I enjoy watching men become bitches and sluts etc. The reason I enjoy strapon:
I personally enjoy anal sex more than regular sex. ALOT more. When I first started doing strapon, I was immensely worried I was going to hurt someone with my dick. So, the first time, I visualized being entered at the same time I was entering him. Slow slow slow…I like to FEEL the initial moment of entering on the receiving end. So…here’s the deal. Every single time I do strapon, I go through this process. I visualize in my mind what it would be like on the other side. Once we’re in the swing of things…I switch over in my mind to the fucker (instead of the fuckee) and I’m ALL about figuring out how far I can go with that individual to get as close to orgasm as possible and then deny it. I call it “riding the edge” and I try to do that as long as possible. Over and over. Yup.
Now, on to the question of how this is sexually gratifying….
Obviously, the entering and initial strokes are arousing for me, as I’m visualizing being entered myself. This automatically makes my pussy wet. Everytime!!! Then…the rest of the scene is arousing simply because I’m doing something “naughty” and its HOT watching a man be pleasured in a deviant way, in a vanilla way too…I’m a pleaser. The reason I’m addicted to strap…is that I know for sure that I’m doing something to him that is incredibly erotic. It doesnt carry the same emotional risks and safety risks as traditional sexual activities…so there is zero guilt. No guilt=liberty to enjoy completely. I take great joy in causing a supreme orgasm. I feel incredibly powerful causing and controlling one or multiple grand eruptions. Call me crazy….but I’m just a pervert folks.
I also enjoy knowing that while you can go to another woman for strapon play…you cannot find another who is as in tune with what is happening. Remember….I’m a HUGE fan of anal myself. I know exactly what gives me goose bumps or makes me get to that happy WHORE feeling during anal and I can translate that into what I do with you. That’s powerful.
So, I’m not going to stop doing strap ever. I’m doing it in my personal time, with a guy I enjoy. True story…I’m a strap addict. I use strapon to experience ALOT of sex without actually having it. I often say there is a huge difference but a fine line between FEELING like a dirty whore and BEING a dirty whore. I prefer the first….and strapon satisfies my need for sex. True, I do not orgasm from strap…and I refuse to start using vibrators and insertables for myself during sessions. Mostly because I would lose focus and I cannot orgasm standing up. Most of the time I masturbate after sessions…
Masturbation is for another day/topic/question…you all know I’m a frequent masturbator. However, this does seem like a good time to cover the rules for StrapOn Sessions:
1. No Pain- nothing in your ass should hurt. You only have one prostate and it needs to keep you alive. Do NOT allow anyone to play rough in your ass. EVER. I see some strap porn where these bitches are rough with huge cocks. The actors in these videos are not first time strap players…rough strap/toy play in your ass can lead to ruptures, broken blood vessells, prostate infection and swelling, blood in your semen, etc. NO ROUGH PLAY. Now, there is a difference between little pain and big pain. The part of anal sex I enjoy is the initial pain…it makes me radically present in the moment. Thats not the same as the pain associated with being piledrived with no lube and being told to “take that you filthy slut”. NOT SAFE!!!!
2. Do NOT touch your cock during a session with me. You are telling me that you wish to violate rule #3.
3. Do NOT cum early or quick. I hate that! Its completely unsatisfying to me….not a good show.
4. Do NOT masturbate or release for at least 24 hours before visiting me. The whole fucking point is to “ride the edge” of orgasm as long as possible. What fun is it if the “edge” is fuzzy because you just jerked off that morning? And…I like EAGER participants. I have the most fun when you are aroused and I am in control of when you get it. You can bet I’m going to make you work a lil for it
I’m sure this post will bring more questions…but these are my thoughts at 9 am Thankx for the question Bobbie boi!!
What is the process of prostate milking?
Just a random perverted thought: Have you ever done any DP with a male friend and a female sub of yours?
Wellllllll THATS a great idea! Not yet, but now I’m gonna hafta. You volunteering?
Volunteering? Well…yea that’s what friends are for!
Wow I would really like to partake in an intense strap session, but I am afraid I will violate rule #3. I get so quickly excited and stimulated by strap that I am afraid I will not be able to control myself until you let me explode. How good are you at helping me hold back?
Perhaps one of our other members could help answer that question…someone who has experienced how serious I am about Rule #3
If you are a good communicator I can take you right to the edge an infinite number of times…until you beg me to let you. If you are a suck ass communicator I can take you right to the edge and then you will fuck it up. So…come relaxed and prepared to participate in your session…
One of the top priorities I have with the Happy Perverts (regs) is orgasm control. If you dont have any control now, you will after a few sessions with me!
When you are new, the punishment for violating rule #3 is usually being forced to orgasm again…with little time to regroup. Careful for what you wish for! And, never, ever come see me in a hurry~ if you violate rule #3, you could end up a hostage until I get what I want, a GOOD show!
Walker, I just had a session with this problem. SUPER eager, hard cock ready to explode upon arrival. And…he did cum super fast. Solution: give him 3 minutes to calm down and then get back to the task of making him give me a good one.
I think there are some, a few, who should release a couple of hours before visiting…but to be honest, watching that guy cum with little to no stimulation, and a BIG cum…was extremely hot, so I’m not sure I wanna miss out on the first one either. Call me a greedy bitch. I’m ok with it.
So rule # 3 sounds ridiculously hard, and really it is, if of course dear Miss Fortunes was wanting you to actually orgasm at that point. Being that she is in control, and as long as you don’t violate any of the other rules, you should be completely at her mercy… in a good way of course. Just focus, and be engaged in what is happening, and you should be just fine!!
Thats whats up…true story. If you wanna drive…you dont invite a Nascar driver along and ask me to sit in the back, you just do the same old shit you always do.
Miss Fortunes – what is a milking session like?
Well Greg…I posted a detailed accounting of two such sessions. As you can see, this kind of session can have infinite variation. Really, the recipe for fun depends much on YOU. I have the most fun with those who have a fun attitude and a willingness to be BAD!
http://missfortunes.blog.com/?p=502 <for the posting on milking babe
Thanks for answering my concerns. I consider myself a good communicator in situations like this, I like to go to edge and back numerous times as this is what it is all about. Just wanted to make sure upon my telling you that you I am super excited that you can bring me back before exploding. I also agree the longer you can take me to the edge and back the better, and when you tell me to jump off I will jump off. I like to please also and I like to obey as I am directed as I know this does give you great satisfaction. WHen I get some unrushed time I will be calling….
Oh…I like how he said, “unrushed time”…see that Perverts…he follows directions well! Awesome!
I love your attitude about strap-on outlined above. An unrushed session with your expertise is just what I’m looking for. What a great session that would be, especially because you seem to have extensive knowledge and experience and enjoy bringing men to the edge over and over. You appear outrageously sexy. Would it be possible to have an S.O. session with you in a corset only and being preceded by a spanking and cropping for being bad? Also, combining the S.O. with some fairly tight CBT and ball-spreading?
Do you have any female subs? If so, how would she fit in?
Just a corset? sure…but I’m wearing fishnets or SOMETHING on the bottom!!! Spanking and Cropping? Bring it! and the rest… welcome home pervert! Book it!
Female Sub Debate: Is there really any value in this? Here’s my point of view…limited as it is… I’d rather hire a super fun Pro with a great attitude, a nice rack, and great oral skills. Thats just me…seems a complete waste of time to acquire a lil subbie bitch who has to be taught EVERYTHING. No thanks…I’d rather find someone that I can communicate with who can suck a dick to my specific instructions (change it up according to MY stroke and talkin all kinds of crazy shit!!)…sort of like an extension of my own fabulous mouth (I cant do it ALL…I’m manning the cock here!). THAT would be supreme. Why a PRO? Cuz they show up on time, do what they are told, collect their offering quietly, and get the fuck out of my way cuz I’m busy! Now…finding this diamond of a girl hasnt proven to be so easy.
Sounds delicious. Do you have a corset that stops south of, and exposes, your outrageously beautiful breasts and fishnet stockings that stop south of your smooth kitty? Can’t wait to feel your crop on my ass, my balls separated and tied tightly while you enter me with your strap-on! What’s the reference to your “fabulous mouth”?
You are so hot – especially your smile, your suckable breasts and your fine ass!!
Ok listen up strap lovers and listen closely! And this is true for ALL. Until I’m ONLY fucking ONE man with my strap…my pussy is COVERED with strangers. I’m not into the idea of ass juice in my cootch. Now, I realize that in Fantasyland (where y’all get to reside) this sounds fun…but in Realityville (where I’m responsible for safe playing out of YOUR fantasy)my pussy isnt coming into contact with even the cleanest of your asses. OK?
For the same reason…I will never be using a Feeldoe. Lets imagine….a feeldoe snug in my cunt and the other end snug in your ass…where is the juice headed? Gravity will bring it straight to me. NOPE. That will only happen when Im finally settled on one fabulously worthy ass. Got It?
You didnt read and understand the reference to my “fabulous mouth”? Read it again. Dont mistake my niceness for an inability to enforce boundaries fuckers…The day I advertise Blo-N-Go “cardates”…you know for sure I’ve started using drugs. Until then…the only way your cock is feeling my mouth…is if I cant resist it. Look down at your cock and ask yourself…can she NOT resist it? What is Realityville telling you?
Thanks for the clarifications. Both points are well understood. You’re right, the reference to your “fabulous mouth” is, I take it, to your “conversation” during a session.
Are you interested in doing a session that combines strap-on, ass and breast worship, and your queening chair?
And, yes I do have great conversation lol!
Really…I was saying I would like to find a girl who can do what I do on MY time (and I KNOW my skills).
Wow I now know how special our time together was. Seems you have limits too. You may have crossed one or two for me. Don’t know if you remember me (Larry). Our session went a little awry cuz of me. I love strap on especially with bondage involved, being helpless and at your mercy lol. I very much enjoyed your sub’s participation as well. I have dreamed of meeting her again. Maybe it is time we got together again if you are game??? Next time i am in town. Thanks for taking such good care of me. to show my appreciation u can have your way with me to your hearts content!
The Legend Lives! YOU Larry…are ALWAYS welcome in Fortunesland. I might keep you chained to the wall a bit longer this time! Bring it forth for milking….
Question. I’m haunted with erotic kinky thoughts and i don’t know Why, certain thoughts arouse me. I want to live them out but am secretly ashamed or feel like a pervert for having them. Since i feel overwhelmed at the thought of trying them all in one session. Where do you recommend i begin?
This is going to be a long reply Charles, grab a cup of coffee K? First of all, stop policing your THOUGHTS with shame! Thoughts are to be enjoyed, savored, and cultivated not shamed and ignored. I say this because there is a HUGE difference between what we think and what we DO. Assuming you have control over your thoughts/feelings/behavior patterns (those three are linked forever!), WHY must we suppress our own THOUGHTS? geez. OK, now for the WHY we have these kinky thoughts…I participated in hypnotherapy, weekly, for over a year with a specialist in Past Life Regression. One of the things I learned…ALOT of our sexual behaviors are related to past lives. Ever notice how some of our fantasies are time/period specific? I have REAL slave fantasies…obviously, those fantasies arent appropriate for this time period. That provides at least SOME explanation for where they come from….
NOW, lets talk about the difference between thinking and doing. ALOT of my own fantasies are rape or Ravishment related…and I could/would never actually enact them (not really safe). There is a big difference in the doing. If you look at Cognitive Behavioral Treatment for sex offenders, the focus is on monitoring your thoughts, and and controlling your emotions and actions related to the thoughts. For most of us, this is an automatic process. But, for the criminally deviant…the problem is usually in a lack of filtering, a lack of ability in suppressing the emotions/behaviors associated with the thoughts. Its not like other people have MORE deviant thoughts etc…we would like to think so, but really the important element is the person’s ability to control their impulses. We’ve all thought about killing someone…and few ever do it. So, bringing this back to your “perverted” thoughts…why are you trying to suppress the thoughts? and then why do you assign shame as the feeling for having the thoughts? We control our own linking and processing, so you could just as easily choose to assign PRIDE to having these thoughts (kind of extreme…but you get the picture). You say you are “haunted”…well Charles, it is whatever you make it…I prefer to call it, blessed. I enjoy my crazy fantasies…I also know I will never do most of them as they aren’t appropriate. Thats OK. Not every fantasy was meant to be enacted! And acting them all out in ONE session? Lawd…I’d never be able to do that with mine…could you? Pick the FEELING that the fantasy gives you (loss of control, highly desired by your kidnapper, etc.) and play out a scene that is likely to give you that feeling. The more you communicate the thought/feeling connection to your partner, the more likely they will be able to help you achieve it.
And since when did “feeling like a pervert” become a bad thing? Only YOU make it a negative thing Charles…noone else knows what you are thinking or feeling…thats the beauty of it babe. Until our thoughts are monitored…I’m taking advantage and thinking whatever the fuck I want!
I recommend you begin by identifying what the feelings are in the fantasies that you enjoy…and then figuring out how you want a scenes behavior to give you that same feeling. I also recommend giving yourself a break and not judging all your thoughts/fantasies…but accepting them at face value and honoring yourself that its OK to have your own thoughts. Yup. True Story.
If you happen to be one of those people who lacks control over the DOING of your thoughts/feelings and you act out based on emotion and deviant thoughts…I have a different recommendation. In this case, you should really monitor how many of your thoughts involve any force (you taking what you want without regard to others)…fine in thoughts…problem when its DONE. These are the people who end up incarcerated behind their thoughts.
Have a great day PERVERT…I can relate.
Hmm, so if a person cums before you want them to, have you ever forced them to clean up their own cum for you? Nothing like having your face shoved into a your own cum while your Mistress holds your face down in it and makes you lick up every drop.
I’m cutting and pasting this from a few weeks ago, so if it looks familiar it is.
I posted a detailed accounting of two such sessions. As you can see, this kind of session can have infinite variation. Really, the recipe for fun depends much on YOU. I have the most fun with those who have a fun attitude and a willingness to be BAD!
http://missfortunes.blog.com/?p=502 <for the posting on milking babe
Thanks for the response, very illuminating… on ALL the topics. Your site is the first i’ve seen to approach topics and it’s a welcome relief. Believe it or not, just being able to post about it was very therapeutic. No worries though, nothing in my head is remotely approaching anything sinister and the “haunting” i feel actually meant “persistent”. I just felt weird about being attracted to “small things” like a certain shade of lipstick, a certain dress, a certain type of high heels. I’m definitely give myself permission to perceive things as positive.
oh yes…the “small” things! I believe these things are imprinted somehow in an erotic way…maybe during puberty, maybe from watching a relative apply that lipstick when you were a toddler and it was associated with a feeling and logged in your early brain. I also really believe in past lives…for me its the only explanation for SO MANY of my sexual perversions (things I did as a small child that no child would dream up on their own. And…NO I wasnt molested or anything of the sort). I was already pretty sure you werent ‘sinister’…but since you were brave enough to post, I figured I’d answer for all the others who arent brave too. And….I’m no expert, Im using this forum to figure out alot of my own stuff and here we can all help each other. Its amazing how human beings are 99% the same in our shared experiences, yet we strive to find our uniqueness. Here…I hope we can all just realize how NORMAL we are even in our fetishes/fantasies. YAY for Twisted Perversions
and now…I must masturbate to begin my day! Talk soon
Miss Fortunes, You seem so refreshingly normal for a perverted strap addict. Is it possible to be nice and a little mean at the same time?
Did you hear that Perverts…Chuckie wants to know if I can be a lil mean. LOL LOL LOL. that’s kinda funny since I get calls all the time that I’m too scary. My answer is always the same: Dont ask for that which you dont really want. Once you have met me Chuckie…you will look back on this question and chuckle.
OH MY sounds like Your energy has perked up and the one and only Miss Fortunes is ready, willing and able for action. Hooray, life, as we know it, is good again.
Indeed! On another subject Mr.Hitachi…I’m officially in love with latex, the skirt is freaking AWESOME thank you. Here’s the best part about latex for Miss Fortunes…the awesome pants/leggings work incredibly well for strap. Keeps me clean, and they clean easily. IN LOVE with latex this week. You are the BOMB DIGGITY!!
HOORAH, another latex convert comes under its spell. Remember the green leggings are VERY delicate whereas the red are much more durable. ENJOY and when will we see pics?
Does the invigorated Miss Fortunes have any fun ideas for things to do on a Saturday night? I would love to hear about them.
@ Anonymous…fun ideas for a Saturday night…LAWD! I’m not really sure what you mean? Bars? There are plenty of them…not my scene anymore. Fetlife.com has lots of groups you can find posting events and such.
The Best Saturday Night I’ve had in a year was being tied to Mr. Hitachi’s contraption in his garage and molested/ forced to squirt…maybe you could beg him for your turn…I highly recommend it. But since that isnt an option for this evening…I’m left to my own devices.
My saturday night…tonight…I think I’m on the hunt for a fine speciman, one that doesnt talk too much, has a nice thick cock…and doesnt talk too much. Wait….I’m always on that hunt without success. So…I will probably be found molesting willing vicitims. THATS ALWAYS a good time.
Anonymous….what specifically are you looking to get into? Narrow it down, I know everybody, I’ll point ya in the right direction
Why have I become Anonymous? BooHoo
This one has your name…thats WEIRD. Cool thing tho…I was thinking about you without knowing it was you. Energy is a connected sort…
A few easy questions. Can you do a prostate massage and a forced “mangasm” in the same session? The strap-on intrigues me but i’ve never done it, does it actually feel good? lastly, Is it asking too much to wear something specific?
Looking forward to seeing you in the future.
I can do anything, first. So, yes…most definitely. DOES STRAP FEEL GOOD????? Yeah, after you become bored/accustomed to prostate massages of the manual sort…its time to go HANDSFREE. Really, thats all it is Charles…a super fun handsfree Pros Mass with something larger than my finger. Yup. If you like the feeling of having your prostate tickled until you cum…you already know if you will like strap (and yes you will become addicted). The key is to find a strap partner/provider that take the time to ENSURE that it feels good…not just bend you over, lube you up, and just fuck the shit out of you whether you like it or not. I prefer to make you WANT it before I give it to you….cuz I like the WANTING. We all like feeling like a dirty whore, an insatiable slut. Make sure you have strap partners who are in tune with YOUR body, triggers, limits…and you will love it forever.
That last question…asking ME to wear something specific? or you? If I have it…I will wear it, if I can do the activity in the requested item. If I dont have it, I guarantee I’m too busy to go find something you want (I hate shopping, bring it to me and YES). If its YOU wearing something specific…absolutely, by all means, and make sure you are cute in it
Guess I’m about to find out! Oh boy!! I mean, ohhhhh Princess!
Do I have you on my schedule without realizing it? Where is Chuckie on my calendar?
Sorry, gotta call you when I get my schedule straight. Hoping for the end of the week. Didn’t expect such diligence. I’ll be working on my merit badge, just hope I can meet the requirements.
Oh….now I know who you are….you have time…I’m knitting the merit badge
Seems kinda domestic for a Dom Domme, but I guess I don’t really know what to expect. Can’t wait! But then a scout is patient. (Is that one of ’em?)
Perhaps my sarcasm doesnt translate in writing…. yes Chuckie, I’ll be knitting away and baking a pie for your visit. Mmmmm Hmmm *nods, nods* and then I will change into my Wonder Woman costume and perform Strap on a rooftop. funny visual….
On the real…I am unpredictable. If you’re cute, I may put my tongue in your ear while im inside you.
How about Dr. Quinn, Medicine Woman? “Okay, chuckie, time to take your medicine” I get my super heroes all mixed up in fantasyland. For real tho, I’m cute…
Oh…Chuckie….that’s HILARIOUS! My crystal ball tells me you might be locked in the queening chair forever! I’ve got some medicine for ya! and…cute… *diabolical plan coming together*
I see that once again my insomnia and my imagination have combined to get me into delicious trouble. Diabolical? Oh-oh!
Is it possible to want to be taken by a woman wearing a strapon, but not have it be a BDSM or Domination/Submissive fantasy? It’s something I fantasize about, but it’s never really been about the domination aspect, I always just imagine it as an experiemntal and consensual activity between two adults. Make no mistake, I’d still love to experience it, but the “forceful” aspect doesn;t appeal to me per se…
I’ve gotten a great reputation by distinguishing the difference babe…you are the NORM not the exception. True Story!
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